How to help a child who is anxious about the dentist - Part 2

In the first part of this blog we discussed finding a child-friendly dentist and how to help your child before an appointment.

Maybe you have a dental appointment approaching. How can both you and your dentist make things easier for your child during their visit?

How can the dentist help my child?

Treatment room at Small Bites

• Taking things one step at a time will help to build up confidence. It is usually best to start with a check-up and simple cleaning before moving onto other treatment.  
• Young children are not able to sit still or concentrate for long periods of time, so visits are best kept shorter or have breaks when needed.
• The dentist may introduce a "stop signal," like raising a hand, that can be used so that your child can let the dentist know if they are not comfortable or need a break.
• Distraction can be used to give your child something else to think about other than the dental treatment. For example, music, cartoons on a TV screen or simply chatting about something else.
• A good dentist will explain things in a way that your child can understand as they go along. Long explanations and words may be confusing for your child. It is best to have a separate chat with parents while the child plays it the waiting room if required.
• The dentist can first explain, and then demonstrate any tools or materials before using them. For example, an instrument can be used on the back of the hand or finger nail before it is used in the mouth so your child knows what it feels like. 
• Although the dentist should be friendly with your child they may need to use a sterner tone of voice if a child is not listening and following instructions much the same as a schoolteacher would.

Certificate of Bravery

• Positive Reinforcement - when a child behaves and cooperates well they should be rewarded with praise, stickers, a small gift or "bravery" certificate.

Should parents stay in the room for dental treatment?

This depends on your child's age and behaviour. Young children (below 4 years) tend to experience separation anxiety and therefore it is usually advised that parents stay in the room. 

Some children "play up" to their parents and behave better when they are not in the room. One solution for this is to allow the parent or carer to stay in the treatment room whilst the child behaves well, but ask them to go to the waiting room if the child is not listening and following instructions.  

How can I help my child during a dental visit?

• In the previous post we discussed the importance of staying positive and encouraging your child. 
• For young children, you may need to help support your child on your lap while that dentist checks their teeth as shown in the picture.

• If your child makes a fuss try to remain calm. Dentists who treat children regularly will have seen their share of tantrums and be prepared for this. Allow the dentist to guide you on how to best support you child.  
• Some children will "act up" at the dentist to try to avoid treatment. If they are immediately taken out of the treatment room they are more likely to do the same thing the next time. Instead it should be explained to the child what needs to be accomplished in that visit. If cooperation is difficult it is better to achieve a lesser goal than planned, for example, placing a temporary filling, than abandon treatment altogether.

It is better to use rewards after the treatment is over than to promise bribes before hand. 

Show your child how proud you are of them for each new achievement.

Finally - Prevention is better than cure

Although, with some help, the majority of children can learn to cope with (or maybe even enjoy!) visiting the dentist the goal should be to prevent the need for dental treatment as far as possible.

It's a great feeling to take your child for a check up and be told that there are no cavities!

Here are some tips for preventing dental decay and gum disease:

• Thorough tooth brushing twice a day, morning and night. For more brushing tips see this post (click for link).
• Rinsing out the mouth with water after eating.
• Eating a healthy diet and making snacks and drinks, between meals, sugar free as far as possible. 
• Dental sealants are a coating placed on the biting surface of the back molar teeth by a dentist. They protect the narrow pits and grooves of the tooth which can be prone to decay. See this post for more information (click for link).
• Regular check-ups not only get your child used to visiting the dentist but enable any early signs of dental disease to be spotted and prevented from progressing into a bigger problem.

How you can influence your child's dental health

Children learn by copying important adults in their lives. This is a natural process by which children learn about the world around them. 

Your behaviour, expressions  and reactions will usually have a greater impact on your child than what you say to them. 

Parents have a unique position of influence in their children's lives, as a role model and first teacher. This influence can have either a positive or negative effect. How can we use this influence in a positive way to improve our children's oral health?

• Parents choose what babies and young children eat. Parents usually introduce children to the same foods that they eat.  If children are given a healthy, balanced diet at an early age they are much more likely to choose a healthy diet themselves when they are older. 
• If you are constantly snacking on high fat and high sugar snacks your children are likely to do the same. When shopping, plan your meals and also think about healthy food to keep in the house for snacks when you or your children get hungry between meals. 
• For more information on a diet that is good for you teeth see this link.

• Give your children a good example to follow by letting them see you brushing your teeth regularly. 
• Teach your child about the importance of looking after their teeth. There are books and videos which can make learning fun.

• You will need to brush your child's teeth until they can learn to do it effectively for themselves from around six years old. Older children will still require encouragement and supervision. Also see post on top toothbrushing tips.
• Children whose parents regularly visit the dentist are more likely to do the same.
• Take your child to visit a dentist before they have any pain or problems. Find a dentist who is good with children. Regular check-ups enable the dentist to assess your child's risk for developing decay or gum disease and give preventive advice. Any problems can also be seen early and treated or prevented from progressing.

Did you know that children whose parents are anxious about visiting the dentist are much more likely to become anxious themselves? A recent study showed that parents' attitude towards dentistry are often passed on to their children.

Children look to their parents to learn how to respond  to a new situation and can pick up on their parent's anxiety. This means that some children are very anxious even before they first visit the dentist.

We will look at ways to help anxious children in a future post. For help on overcoming your own anxiety, see this blog (click for link)

Even if you are anxious, try not to let this show to your child. Avoid making negative remarks about the dentist in front of your children.

Once children get interested in looking after their teeth they can be encouraged to see the dentist as someone who helps them to stay healthy.

Does a mother's dental health affect her baby?

When should we start thinking about our children's oral health?

Newborn babies do not yet have teeth - surely this is too early to worry about cavities or gum problems? 

What about during pregnancy?

Expectant mothers are keen to do everything they can for the health of their baby. However, many are unaware that  their own dental health problems can have effects on their general health and their unborn child. 

Research has shown that mothers with gum disease have a three times greater risk of poor and pregnancy and birth outcomes such as pre-term deliveries and low birth weight. This can occur as bacteria from the mouth and their by-products have the ability to cross the placenta to the developing baby and trigger inflammatory responses. Another study has shown a link between gum disease and pregnancy (gestational) diabetes.

Also, mothers with poor oral health and high levels of the bacteria which cause dental decay are at greater risk of passing these bacteria to their newborn babies, putting them at an increased risk of developing dental cavities at an early age. For more information on this, click for the previous blog post.

Problems with oral health in pregnancy

Unfortunately, due to pregnancy hormones, some women can be more susceptible to gum problems during pregnancy. Warning signs of periodontal (gum) disease include swelling, redness, bleeding and sensitivity.

Nausea and vomiting and extreme tiredness can also cause problems and lead to dental hygiene being neglected. Pregnancy cravings and the need to each more frequently may increase the risk of dental decay if sugary snacks are consumed often. 

Many women are concerned about the safety of dental treatment during pregnancy. However, treatment should not be unnecessarily delayed if appropriate safety precautions are taken. Active decay should be removed and the cavity filled. Pain and infection should not be left untreated, as these can cause stress and danger to both the mother and her developing baby. 

Guidance for expectant and new mothers

• Remember that your own dental health can have an effect on your baby, both during pregnancy and after birth.
• See a dentist for a consultation as soon as possible. Be sure to tell your dentist if you are pregnant as this may affect the treatment or medication prescribed. 
• Cleaning (scaling and polishing) and many other treatments are safe during pregnancy, you can discuss the best options with your dentist. 
• The second trimester (14th to 20th week) of pregnancy is usually the best time to get treatment done if required.
• X-rays are generally avoided during pregnancy but if they are required for urgent treatment then small x-rays using a lead apron to protect the rest of your body can be taken.  
• Maintain your oral health during pregnancy to prevent gum disease and decay. Try not to neglect brushing and flossing.
• If you are having gum problems, in addition to regular professional cleaning, using a chlorhexidine (antibacterial) mouthwash may help.
• Diet and nutrition is especially important during pregnancy. Although you will need to eat more frequently, try to choose snacks that are sugar free between meals.
• Take your new baby to see a dentist when they are 1 year old. An early check-up enables the dentist to assess the risk factors for your child developing dental decay and give personalised preventive advice.

Which foods cause tooth decay?

Your child's diet is one of the most important factors in developing dental decay and small changes can make a big difference. 

In the previous blog post we looked at how foods containing sugar combine with bacteria in plaque to produce acid. If the teeth are subjected to frequent or long periods of acid attack, decay becomes likely to occur.

Most people are aware that children who eat too many sweets and candies are likely to get cavities. However, any foods that are are high in refined carbohydrates (starch), such as crackers and chips, can cause decay if the foods remain stuck to the teeth for long periods of time, as the starch breaks down into sugar. In fact, one good way to determine if a snack is good for a child is to check their teeth 20 minutes after consumption. If the teeth are still filled with food, the risk for dental decay will be higher. These foods should be eaten only rarely and teeth should be brushed afterwards.

There are a lot of "hidden sugars" in processed food. If you read the ingredients, they may be labelled as sucrose, glucose, lactose, or fructose - these are all types of sugar. In addition to containing high levels of sugar, many children's breakfast cereals also stick onto the teeth. Even diet soda drinks and concentrated fruit juices can cause decay as they are acidic.

It is not realistic to ban your child from eating sweets. altogether. Instead, limit consumption of sweets and candy to maximum of once a day, preferably at the end of a meal. Those treats that dissolve and clear from the mouth quickly eg. a milk chocolate bar, are better than hard candies, lollipops or sticky caramels. Sweets should be eaten in one go, rather than continually snacking on them.

Children do get hungry and need to snack. Choose healthy snacks such as fresh fruit and vegetables, nuts, cheese. For drinks in between meals go for water or milk without added sugar.

What causes dental cavities?

When you consume any food or drink containing carbohydrate, or sugar, the bacteria in the plaque on your teeth metabolise it, producing an acid attack which lasts for at least 20 minutes. The acid dissolves the outer surface layer of the teeth (enamel).

The acid attack will be much longer if the food remains stuck onto the teeth, or if snacking continues over a period of time, eg. eating a bag of sweets one by one, or continuously licking a lollipop. Also, If babies or toddlers fall asleep with a bottle, or whilst nursing, the milk will remain on their teeth for a longer period of time.

If food and drinks containing sugar are limited to mealtimes, with sugar free snacks and drinks in between, the teeth can recover from these short periods of acid attacks. In the early stages of decay (before a cavity is formed), the enamel can repair itself by taking in minerals from saliva. Fluoride also helps to strengthen the enamel in this process.

However, with frequent snacks and drinks containing sugar, cavities become much more likely to occur.

Once the enamel layer crumbles, a cavity is formed, bacteria enter and the decay process spreads rapidly.

To prevent dental decay, the aim should be to reduce the amount of time that any food containing sugar is present in the mouth. Drinking water or rinsing after eating can help. Try to make snacks and drinks, between meals, sugar free as far as possible. 

 

Regular, thorough brushing to remove plaque build-up from the teeth will also help but, as it is not possible to prevent plaque from building up again after brushing, diet is of extreme importance in preventing cavities.